September 2026Vol. 1, No. 4Lessons From Lived Experience: Reflections on Kinship Care
Policies, programs, and practice guidance are important tools for supporting kinship care, but some of the most powerful lessons come directly from the people who have lived it. Information Gateway's Reflections: Stories of Foster Care collection features personal narratives from individuals whose experiences highlight the many ways kinship care shapes children's lives. Together, these stories illustrate themes that professionals encounter every day, such as family connections, resilience, identity, sibling relationships, and the challenges and rewards of stepping into a caregiving role. The stories below offer a glimpse into those experiences and the lessons they hold.
Promoting Resilience Through Kinship Care
Ashley shares the love she felt growing up in two kinship care arrangements, first with grandparents and then with her aunt. She speaks to how that love became resilience that helped her grow up healthy and thrive, despite adverse childhood experiences. Read her story here.
How Kinship Care Supports the Identities of Tribal Children
In her reflection story, Charla shares her experience as a kinship care advocate for Tribal child welfare communities. She shares the benefits she witnessed when Tribal children grew up in their community, the challenges of navigating both Tribal and non-Tribal agencies, the barriers Tribes face in accessing kinship program funding, and more. Read her story here.
Lessons Learned From a Sibling Caregiver
Jaymi reflects on the challenges she faced when she became a sibling kin caregiver at a young age. She shares areas where she wished she had more support, from help setting family boundaries to providing trauma-informed support for the siblings in her care. Read her story here.


