Frequently Asked Questions: Adoption

• Questions and answers for prospective and adoptive parents
• Questions and answers for adopted people
• Questions and answers for expectant and birth parents
• General resources
• Frequently requested information

Questions and answers for prospective and adoptive parents

• I want to adopt. What are the requirements? How do I find a reputable adoption agency?
• What are the adoption laws in my State? How do I find out about my State laws governing adoption (e.g., consent to adopt; who can adopt, etc.)?
• What is an adoption home study? What type of information is included in it?
• I can't afford to adopt a child. Where can I get help with adoption costs?
• What are the requirements to adopt a child from foster care?
• I want to adopt a child. Am I eligible for adoption assistance (also called adoption subsidy)?
• I need help with my adopted child. What resources are available to me in my State?
• How do I adopt a child living in another State? How do I adopt across State lines?
• How do I adopt a child from a foreign country?
  

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Questions and answers for adopted people

• How can I find my birth parents or birth relatives?

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Questions and answers for expectant and birth parents

• I'm pregnant and thinking about adoption. Where do I start?
  
  Adoption: Considering Your Options and Making a Plan

  This factsheet provides information and guidance for exploring parenting and adoption options and about making an adoption plan. It points to resources that may help those contemplating adoption come to a choice that feels best for them and their child. Others who are affected by adoption decisions, such as relatives, also may find this factsheet useful for answering some of their important questions. In addition to resources highlighted throughout this factsheet, a list of blogs and websites with more information is provided after the conclusion.
• What do I do if my child's adoptive family does not live up to our postadoption contact agreement?
  In most States postadoption contact agreements are not legally enforceable, so there may be no legal action for you to take. The Child Welfare Information Gateway publication Postadoption Contact Agreements Between Birth and Adoptive Families has more information.
• What is a putative father registry? How do I find out if my State has one?
  A putative father is the "presumed" legal father of a child. Some States maintain putative father registries to provide information on presumed fathers. These registries vary but may include:
  • Name, address, social security number, and date of birth of putative father and birth mother
  • Name and address of any person adjudicated by a court to be the father
  • Child's name and date of birth, or expected month and year of birth
  • Registration date
  • Other information deemed necessary

The Child Welfare Information Gateway publication The Rights of Unmarried Fathers has more information about these registries.

• I am a biological father and my partner is thinking about making an adoption plan for our child. What are my rights?
  
  The Rights of Unmarried Fathers

  This publication provides an overview of State laws related to the rights of unmarried fathers and the methods by which a man may establish a legal parent-child relationship with his child. The U.S. Supreme Court affirmed the constitutional protection of an unmarried father's parental rights when he has established a substantial relationship with his child. The circumstances in which a man may be presumed to be the father of a child, the use of putative fathers' registries, the use of genetic tests to establish parentage, and the right of rescission of paternity claims also are discussed. Summaries of laws for all States and U.S. territories are included.
• I am a pregnant minor and my parents want me to place my child for adoption. What are my rights?
  State law varies in regard to minor parents' rights; however, in no State could a child be placed for adoption without the minor parent's consent. In some States, minor parents are able to place their child for adoption without additional consent. In other States, the pregnant minor's parents or guardian would also need to consent to an adoption. The Child Welfare Information Gateway publication Consent to Adoption has more information. To determine how these laws would apply in a specific situation, it may be helpful to contact an attorney familiar with adoption law in your State.

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General resources

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Frequently requested information

Adoption Statistics
Links to the latest facts and figures on adoption trends, both intercountry and domestic.

Federal Laws
Resources on the Federal laws that provide overarching standards and guidelines for State laws related to adoption.

National Foster Care & Adoption Directory Search
Child Welfare Information Gateway
Provides contact information for public adoption agencies by State. 

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