Promoting Healthy Families in Your Community: 2008 Resource Packet

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You are in section: Table of Contents Letter from the Associate Commissioner About This Packet Protective Factors for Promoting Healthy Families Partnering With Parents and Caregivers Promoting the Five Protective Factors Nurturing and Attachment Knowledge of Parenting and of Child and Youth Development Parental Resilience Social Connections Concrete Supports for Parents Using Tip Sheets for Parents Bonding With Your Baby Usted y su bebé: El lazo que los une Dealing With Temper Tantrums Los berrinches Setting Rules With Teens Los adolescentes y las reglas Finding Help When You Need It Obtenga ayuda cuando la necesite Raising Your Grandchildren Cómo criar al hijo de un pariente Tools for Engaging Your Community Talking Points Community Strategies Pitching Story Ideas to the Media Understanding Child Abuse and Neglect Reporting Child Maltreatment National Organizations That Protect Children and Promote Healthy Families

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Chapter 2: The Five Protective Factors: Social Connections

Parents with a social network of emotionally supportive friends, family, and neighbors often find that it is easier to care for their children and themselves. Most parents need people they can call on once in a while when they need a sympathetic listener, advice, or concrete support. Conversely, research has shown that parents who are isolated, with few social connections, are at higher risk for child abuse and neglect.

Some parents may need to develop self-confidence and social skills to expand their social networks. Helping parents identify resources and/or providing opportunities for them to make connections within their neighborhood or community may encourage isolated parents to reach out. Often, opportunities exist within faith-based organizations, schools, hospitals, community centers, and other places where support groups or social groups meet.

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Exploring Strengths and Needs

Identifying and building on parents' current or potential social connections, skills, abilities, and interests can be a great way to partner with them as they expand their social networks. For parents who have difficulty establishing and maintaining social connections, your discussion may help them identify what is holding them back.

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Sharing Strategies and Resources to Strengthen Social Connections

If parents express an interest in making social connections, you may want to offer suggestions, information, or services. Sometimes parents will not identify a lack of social connections or emotional support as an issue. Instead, they may be concerned about a child's behavior problem or their own depression. In addressing the parent's concerns, you can also provide information about how these needs might be met by connecting with others (e.g., a support group for parents with similar issues). You can also provide general information on how expanding social connections can reduce isolation and support parents.

Consider sharing the following:

Benefits of a broad social network

• Helps ease the burden of parenting
• Models positive social interactions for children and gives children access to other supportive adults
• Provides support in crises
• Offers opportunities to help others

Ways to broaden a social network

• Overcome transportation, childcare, and other barriers—for instance, taking a bus or carpool to a play group or joining a babysitting co-op to meet other parents and have occasional childcare
• Access community resources, especially those with which the parent has some experience (a church he or she attended, a Head Start program where the child is enrolled, a cultural center that offers services in the parent's native language)
• Join a parent's group or play group in the neighborhood, or start a new group

And if a group does not already exist . . .

Some neighborhoods and communities provide ample opportunities for neighbors to come together and friendships to develop. In other cases, agencies and organizations may welcome help in starting groups that bring families together for mutual support. These groups might start as an outgrowth of a widely recognized need in the community, such as new families that have just moved to the area or concerned citizens working against community violence. Community involvement is critical for these groups to be sustained over time. As a service provider, your role might be to bring individuals together (including parents), providing a meeting place, or simply encouraging a community leader to establish a group to meet a particular need.

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You are in section: Table of Contents Letter from the Associate Commissioner About This Packet Protective Factors for Promoting Healthy Families Partnering With Parents and Caregivers Promoting the Five Protective Factors Nurturing and Attachment Knowledge of Parenting and of Child and Youth Development Parental Resilience Social Connections Concrete Supports for Parents Using Tip Sheets for Parents Bonding With Your Baby Usted y su bebé: El lazo que los une Dealing With Temper Tantrums Los berrinches Setting Rules With Teens Los adolescentes y las reglas Finding Help When You Need It Obtenga ayuda cuando la necesite Raising Your Grandchildren Cómo criar al hijo de un pariente Tools for Engaging Your Community Talking Points Community Strategies Pitching Story Ideas to the Media Understanding Child Abuse and Neglect Reporting Child Maltreatment National Organizations That Protect Children and Promote Healthy Families

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